"SHED PEACE, NOT DISCORD, WHERE EVER YOU GO."
It sounds so good, but it seems not to be for today. So much has changed since I was growing up or even since I was dating. There used to a be a time when a man would fall head over heels in love with someone because that person glanced their way. It was sort of like "One Enchanted Evening". One would go above and beyond to try to woo the person of their desire, courting them with romantic dinners and plays and even sending flowers. You would hope that both individuals involved would create a picturesque image of chivalry. Whatever happened to chivalry? Or better as stated in Chicago, "What ever happened to Class?" It seems dead especially in a city like New York City. Every person has a computer or an iPAD. Just look at how many cards you receive by BlueMountain or another website. There is nothing wrong with that but what happened to card and letter writing?
I have seen many in the gay community not date in person anymore but date on Adam4Adam,
Grinder, Scruff and other websites. Is it about dating anymore? Or just about hooking up? I talk to many young patients , including my own children and dating has changed drastically. When I was dating I imagined a perfect life; a nice apartment/house, dogs, and children. For me what sounded like a perfect life STILL is a perfect life. Well there is no such thing as perfection. Dating is difficult.
If your dating life is not perfect, there is one common attempt to cure it: the anti depressant or the anti anxiety medication. These psychological medications can really throw off a great date when they affect sexual function. I see this especially in the male population. Factors like alcohol, the wrong foods, caffeine and definitely illicit drugs can also affect your sex drive.
For the male individual there are certain herbal remedies to ward off the problem. DO NOT stop your medications without talking to your doctor and doing it properly. It would be great if men would take the time to read, research and brew a cup of Damiana tea, but in today's ever popular quick fix world this will not happen. If a man cannot take the time to really date what makes him likely to boil water for a cup of tea? The quick fix is in a herbal pill like:
1. Horny Goat Weed (Epimedium) - this herb has been used in Asia for thousands of years with great success. It boosts libido, and even treats erectile dysfunction. Is is easier to get cialis or Viagra? Sure it is but look at the side effect profile and the cost! Horny goat weed dilates blood vessels, increases sensitivity in nerve ending (of the penile vessels) and raises adrenaline levels. This is what one needs. A natural approach...
There are others like
Tribulus, Panax Ginseng, and Damiana.
There is also Tongkat ali (Eurycoma longifolia) - this herb is named for the Malaysian god known for sexual prowess. In this culture it is used as a daily tonic and for longevity. Maybe you should find some...
So when you find the person of your dreams, go have a cup of tea (not necessarily the above herbs) and take a stroll in the park. Tell him/her you love him/her Respect him/her.
For me, I aim to spend every day for the rest of my life falling in love all over again with the same man... and I do.
Until tomorrow...
You can get a great satisfaction in your sexual life Horny Goat Weed
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